Introducing the True Goddess Journey...

Hey everyone and welcome to the Goddess Forcefield!

The Purpose of this Blog

I am here to bring you the best insights from what I see, hear and learn each day - bullet-proof advice you wont hear anywhere else on being a true gift of woman on this earth.

And OF COURSE - Men are very welcome on this blog! We appreciate you, respect you and admire you and would love to hear your input.

So to all of you reading this - I'd love to hear what's going on for you and what you want to hear about most!

About Me

I'm Alina Berdichevsky, the gal who runs a business called "True Goddess" - a unique service to help bring women back to their deep feminine power...

Every day, I deal with many wonderful, modern and successful women and their dilemas with love, men and relationships; sexuality; confidence; communication; and success to help them solve their woes... (But of course my learning doesnt stop there - as any modern woman, I go home and have my own experiences in the common themes of my own private life.)

But First... Who is a True Goddess?

Essentially, she is your unique embodiment of a potent, feminine and inspiring woman...
She is in love with life, at peace with herself and connects authentically with others. Most of all, a Pure Goddess has courage and gusto to crack through stagnant conditoning and go for what she loves- she has the courage to LIVE her truth.

What Feminine Energy is NOT:

Before we go any further, it's important to denote some feminine energy stereotypes:

She is NOT a dumbed down, submissive and agreeable, chipy bimbette, tied to the stove baking cookies and wearing pink. Feminine energy is not a saccarine Betty Crocker clone, she is not the "perfect plastic woman" Stepford Wife and she is not an anti-men, hardenned "feminist" -

SHE IS A GODDESS - and all the beautiful, sensual, warm and inspiring qualities that embodies - men and women are drawn to her, because being around her makes everyone feel happy and enriched.

If that makes you mad or uncomfortable, just look around at the state of the world - do you think the planet could do with a bit more love, softness and compassion? Were these not the qualities you most adored in your mother and the people around you growing up?

Indeed the True Goddess is a nurturer - but she's no submissive slave!
Yes, she is open and receptive - but she's no doormat!
Yes, she is gentle and soft and kind - but she is wallflower!
And YES, she is strong and tenacious - without being aggressive or a ballbreaker!

Why All This is Especially Important Today

If you observe nature, you will notice perfect balance and harmony co-existing in everything to ensure its survival. Summer balances winter, water balances fire, night balances day, yin and yang, masculine and feminine.

However, if you look around at the concentration of world leaders, the philosophers who have influenced us, the way the schooling, educational and medical systems are organised and general positions of authority, its overwhelmingly all men men men...

Now, I am not saying that men haven't been doing a great job, and men who are conscious, self aware and mature bring forth many great qualities - initiating, bold, strategic, self-sacrificing in the name of loving service...

However, when men-overload is uncurbed by a feminine counter-balance , it begins to get out of control as we are witnessing in the world today - left unchecked it can get arrogant, defensive, stubborn and aggressive, initiating wars and the like to defend and prove its raging ego.

But the reality is - men are not entirely to blame! They are just responding unconsciously to a low presence of authentic female energy. And in my recent experience, most women (including myself, up to a year ago) unfortunately have little access to the concept of what it actually is.

Feminine essence has been supressed for so long, that there are not enough women on the planet today who are still connected and aware of it to live it fully and teach others. I myself am am only on the journey of discovery, merely inviting you to step into the void with me. There are definitely SOME women out there living in truth, but not ENOUGH to create any massive global change or turn-around. If I am wrong, then why aren't there more women in leadership positions?

The Potency of Feminine Leadership

The reality is, true feminine energy is very potent and powerful - it could easily go head to head and win with male power. We are the ones who can give birth and have multiple orgasms, remember? There is a reason for that.

Women in their feminine bring out the BEST in men. Just as you are craving a man who is strong, decisive, self assured and an effortless leader, its only fair to note that men are also crying out for women who are gentle, sensual, stable and receptive.

So, please get off the high-horse with me and cease the thinking that men actually OWE us something - cos I'm realising more and more that they don't.

What we owe to OURSELVES, first and foremost is a return to OUR essence, our feminine truth.

The True Goddess in Everyday Life

So the first step is to becoming a Pure Goddess yourself is to start thinking about your own source of strength - is it masculine or feminine? Does feeling powerful seem forced and challenging or deep and effortless?

Now, please ponder the following and feel free to post your answers:

1) How do you get your way in the office? How do you get your way with men?

Be really honest with yourself and notice your strategy unfold:

eg when do you push /demand/sulk/manipulate/control/calculate/flirt/get angry/ or scheme?

2) Next, think about when you feel like a Goddess? Who are you around? What are you doing?

What qualities do you embody in that space - open/loving/patient/playful/sensual/joyful/or in flow?

3) What do you tend to do more of - A or B? Are you different at work to how you are with men? Why so - what motivates you to act in these ways?

4) What can you do different to remain in your Goddess energy for longer?

5) And finally, what does being Goddess mean to you? Who do you think is a True Goddess walking the earth, and why?

So don't hold back - I'd love to hear your thoughts, ideas, experiences and challenges! And of course - feel free to challenge me. I am here to learn and grow just as much as you are.

Til next time, Alina x